Sunday, June 1, 2008

Big Girl Beds

Part 1
Ava has been having a few problems sleeping through the night. We aren't sure if she doesn't like being alone in a dark room or if she's having nightmares or if she just thinks she can sleep with us. (Lola and Ava sleep separately because they would always wake each other up). Anyway, I've been thinking about doing this for a long time now and we finally did it. We brought two twin mattresses in and put them on the floor in Lola's room. We knew it was going to be rough but we are going to keep trying because it didn't go too bad. We had to lay next to them for about a half hour while they fell asleep. I think the girls enjoyed the sleepover because we couldn't get them to calm down. Lola kept repeating everything Ava said and Ava repeated what Lola said. I loved it when they started chanting "big girl bed, big girl bed". Finally they fell asleep and we tiptoed out. Then at 3am Ava woke up and started crying and knocking at her door. I gave in, because I didn't want Lola to wake up, and put her in bed with me. She would NOT go to sleep so I put her in her old crib and let her cry it out. She slept in until 9am. Lola slept until 8am. Lola is a really good sleeper. We'll see how tonight goes. If anyone has any advice about putting two kids to bed in the same room or about transitioning from cribs to beds please let me know. I hate laying there waiting for them to fall asleep. I never rocked them to sleep because I just don't have the patience.
Part 2
Last night was a tiny bit easier, but it definitely wasn't stress free. They fell asleep a lot quicker so Ryan and I only had to lay there for 20 minutes or so. Instead of Ava waking up crying and trying to get out of her room, she woke up about the same time (3am) and started singing. I guess that's better, but I still worry about her waking up Lola. Amazingly, Lola didn't even wake up once, but she did fall out of bed three times. I had to come in and lay by Ava several times in the night. I had to get Ava out of the room at 5:30am because she walked over to Lola (who was sound asleep on the floor) and kept asking her "how are you?". I think she has another cold or something....Maybe she's teething....I hope that's why she can't sleep through the night.
Part 3
I decided to combine my on-going stories about the girls sleeping problems into one big post because it was getting stupid to make a new one each time. So, last night was better than the night before. We did our nighttime routine and put them in their beds, said goodnight, and shut the door. They were yelling "ba ba" so Ryan brought them their sippy cups. After that, we could hear them talking a little but then it was silent. It worked!!! I don't know WHAT worked, but it worked. I only went in once to put Lola back on her bed and to quiet Ava down. They slept until 7:30 in their own beds!!!

10 comments:

Colleen said...

You are brave! I'm not putting Elijah in a "big boy bed" until he starts trying to climb out of his crib. No signs of that yet, thank goodness!

Sorry I don't have any advice for you. Good luck!

Jana said...

Sounds like a fun sleep over. They'll get use to it in a while.

Stacy said...

Ok so what works for me is I put a movie on for them at bedtime. They actually get to take turns each night picking the movie. I know some parents are against too much TV, but this works for me because I don't have the patience to lay down with them either, and they stay in place if they have a movie on. And if they get out of bed, then you threaten to turn the movie off and they have to go to bed without it. After awhile they get used to watching movies and it becomes part of the routine, some nights my kids seriously fall asleep before the movie even starts. I know some Moms accomplish the same thing by playing music.

Megan said...

That is so exciting. I hope they can get used to it pretty quick. Are you going to switch which bedroom is theirs?

Corina said...

I think you are doing great! Big Girl beds is fun but sure takes time...I think kids also go through stages of just being startled at night...the key is them being able to get themselves back to sleep by themselves I think...you did good! Your a good mom (an with two at a time no less) :)

LieslPie said...

Colleen said...

"How are you?"

Ha ha! So cute!

June 2, 2008 2:35 PM
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Blogger The Paw's said...

I swear it always seems you just get them sleeping good and then they get sick and it throws off their schedule AGAIN.

June 2, 2008 2:52 PM
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Blogger Fantastic Five said...

One thing that seemed to work for us, we would not sleep with them but everytime they got out of bed we spoke very little to them and put them right back in. We made sure they had a night light and with a few of them we played soft music or stories on tape. But everytime they got out we escorted them right back. I only took a few LONG nights for it to work....remember I said it worked not that it was easy!

June 2, 2008 3:20 PM
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Blogger Bryan and Jess said...

Liesl Good luck with this... I will know who to call when we get to this point haha!!

June 2, 2008 4:00 PM
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Blogger Jana Neal said...

I can't imagine actually rolling out of bed. "how are you?"...Funny!

June 2, 2008 6:27 PM
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Blogger Ginia said...

You have such beautiful girls. Good luck with bedtime.

June 3, 2008 6:45 AM

Jana said...

How is it that Lola keeps rolling out of bed. It just cracks me up.

Stacy said...

Hooray! Let's hope it continues.

Janel said...

What we do is have her listen to music, but now when we go on vacation if we don't have music we have a really bad night. So if I could go back I wouldn't do it again. You don't want them to be attached to more things.

Ryan said...

So how do you know when Lola rolls out of bed? Is it just one of those supersenses you Mom's have or do you her a thud?